Like seriously I wish we had a more comprehensive sex education program in the U.S. You know how many guys I know who had no idea an unaroused vagina is only 2-3 inches deep? Or that the cervix raises up when aroused to accommodate dick? Or that if a girl is “tight” that generally means she’s not turned on and you’re shitty in bed? Or that the cervix has an entire cycle it goes through throughout the month where is changes hardness, placement in the vagina, wetness? Like, when you’re ovulating your cervix gets soft and raises high up into the vagina and your hormones get you really horny. It’s like natures way of moving the furniture around and fluffing the pillow for dick because it wants to get pregnant. And before menstruation, it gets really hard and low in the vagina. It’s basically inactivating it’s Facebook and saying “I just need some alone time for a few days”
Ladies and gentlemen, take a moment to learn about vaginas. Men, take an interest into your woman’s menstrual cycle!
U.S. Needs better sex Ed because I’m a 23 year old woman and didn’t even know all of this
Hi I had no idea about the cervical cycle.
God bless this post pls share it far & wide
“It’s like natures way of moving the furniture around and fluffing the pillow for dick because it wants to get pregnant.” This has got to be one of my new favourite quotes.
Also, for anyone interested, have some sex ed links:
Laci Green – comprehensive sex ed on YouTube
The cervix, what happens throughout the cycle and how it actually looks. (Or for those that have one, check out your own with a mirror and a speculum. It’s very easy and kinda cool.)
College Humor – a nice take on the hymen myth. Also check out this pdf by RFSU (they also have a neat pussypedia)
Or explore Wikipedia, with all its links and wisdom. For example you can try to spot the difference: vulva vs. vagina.
Or read about the cycle (Check out the breakdown under 3.Cycles and phases. It’s good and has links to more detail)
And I will add, because this took me WAY too long to find out for myself, Contraception by Fertility Awareness , diaphragms and menstrual cups can do wonders for someone that has issues/is fed up with the conventional products.
Add more. Spread it around. Lets learn and educate. Simply normalising and informing also helps advocate for sex ed around the world : )