Hi! I read your reply to the coming out thing and if you feel ok about it, I think you should do it. Also: It sounds like you should call yourself bi. It sounds like you’re bisexual and just because some gatekeeping douchecanoes once said that you’re not bi once you are in a straight relationship, that doesn’t mean it’s true. People aren’t ace while they’re single. People are not pan only when they’re in a relationship with one person of each gender. You’re attracted to both? You’re bi.