androgenius7:

A reminder to those who need it today: It is okay to be confused.  Never let the argument “You’re just confused” invalidate or intimidate you.  You don’t have to have your mind made up in order to be valid or for your experience to be real.  What you feel is real.  Even if you don’t know what those feelings are or how long it will last.  You have a right to make decisions and change your labels, identity, etc. when they no longer fit you.